Tired...

Been very very busy these few weeks... quite obvious cos no time to blog the many many things i wanted to blog..... haiz.... so sad...

BEST part is i dunno what i have been busy with.... jus feel that i have been doing one thing after another... and very sadly.. most are jus work... I was actually quite grateful abt the national day break.. but... times really fly.. cos it was gone in a flash and i did not do work... cos tot shld give myself a break.. but now really regret it sia.. haiz....

Backlogs, backlogs and more backlogs... when will i ever finish????!!!!!!!

MY GREATEST short-term DREAM now...:

NO NEED TO DO WORK DURING THE WEEKENDS, ESP ON SUNDAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Too Busy for a Friend..... a touching story to share....

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name. Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down. It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.

That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. 'Really?' she heard whispered. 'I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!' and, 'I didn't know others liked me so much,' were most of the comments.

No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.

Several years later, one of the students was killed in VietNam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.

The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.

As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. 'Were you Mark's math teacher?' he asked. She nodded: 'yes.' Then he said: 'Mark talked about you a lot.'

After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher.

'We want to show you something,' his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket 'They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.'

Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.

'Thank you so much for doing that,' Mark's mother said. 'As you can see, Mark treasured it.'
All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, 'I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home.'

Chuck's wife said, 'Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album.' 'I have mine too,' Marilyn said. 'It's in my diary'

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. 'I carry this with me at all times,' Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: 'I think we all saved our lists'

That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.

The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be.

So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late.

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Passing by....

Super pissed by many things recently.... haiz...

anyway.. will be posting soon... over-addicted with FB games.. so sorry....& me going test-drive later... haha..

stay tuned!!... & my sincere apologies for not posting recently..... i do hope i sound sincere enough....:p

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《败犬女王》大结局。。意义最深刻语录。。

终于看完了《败犬女王》大结局。。。对单无双最后说的这句话。。颇有感触。。

单无双：

“败犬或胜犬都无所谓
不需要在乎别人的眼光

最重要的是。。。

你自己觉得快不快乐呢？

因为幸福的标准。。

应该由自己决定。

因为在他的心里。。

我就是女王。”

相信我们都得不断提醒自己。。幸福的定义是自己决定的。。。:)

最后。。。追了近五个月的偶像剧。。相信许多和我志同道合的女性朋友。。等的就是这张幸福的画面吧。。。

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败犬。。力量大。。:D

supposed to be blogging... haha... but... think watching the last epi of my FAV show...《败犬女王》 is of utmost importance now... will 单无双 be with 卢卡斯？？I really really hope so... if not i think i wun be able to sleep tonight...

okie.. more updates to come.. after the show of cos... haha.. and sch hols are finally here....:D

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